“Guess what?You are not enough.Why do you keep trying?Give up. “
It’s true, what I said last time. (You need to read this post before you can read the one you're at now. It is imperative. Sorry.) [(... I'm not actually sorry. Go read it.)]
Yeah, so maybe the post was a little cruel sounding (You: A little cruel sounding? A Little, cruel sounding? You sick, sadistic human being…) Well, alright. So maybe a little more than a little harsh.
But why dance around it? It’s something we all hear, something we all feel.. Why pretend that isn’t an accusation on your heart?
If no one brings up the cruel things in life, all our problems will never be solved.
That’s my theory, anyways. (You: Well, your theory sucks.) Fine, I’ll write about kittens next time.
But until then, lemme finish up here. Last week’s post was not a meandering stab at your heart.
We’ve all heard the saying, “The truth will set you free.” And we all know, it’s true.
But context is everything.
If I were to look a girl in the eyes and say “You are beautiful,” she’d probably smile. It’d hit her heart a little, but not much. However, if a guy did the same thing, she’d probably blush a little and she’d feel it more. She’d believe it a little more. And if the guy she likes did the exact same thing, she’d be on cloud nine. She’d spend the rest of the day living off the emotions from that comment.
One truth. Three reactions.
Now, take the phrase “You’re beautiful,” and put it into advertising. Stick it on the walls of Victoria’s Secret. Stick it in a shampoo commercial. Suddenly, this truth is a ploy. A lure. A trap of sorts.
Give the phrase to a rapist (Or, you know, someone friendlier. A player maybe.) Now this truth is deadly.
The truth in and of itself is neutral. It’s how you use it that counts.
Now that we’ve settled that, let’s move on.
“You are not enough.”
That’s another truth. Do you see where I’m going with this? When we hear this one, we immediately rebel against it. “No! I am enough!” we cry, desperately hoping to ease the pain we feel.
And that’s exactly the reaction the enemy would want. I don’t talk about spirit stuff much. I mostly just lean towards God. But allow me to introduce you to the dark side, and what the dark side does.
The truth is, you alone are not enough.
God designed you to work with people, and most importantly to work with him. Companionship. We weren’t made to lean solely upon ourselves. But then the prince of shadows came along and said, “Hmm. If I focus on that truth, I bet you the sad little humans’ll start running from it.” And that’s exactly what has happened. When you take the truth out of the context of leaning on God, suddenly, you feel weak. You feel insignificant. And, you have no reasoning behind it.
The truth is, you are weak.
The truth is, you are insignificant.
The truth is, you were made to lean on God and you were made to find your significance in Him.
But we’ve turned from that and we’ve built our own lies. We call them the truth, because they feel safer than the accusations of our hearts. And still, the accusations stand because, well, the accusations are not false.
It all depends on the context. It all depends on what you finish the sentence with. On where it comes from. On who’s saying it. On what meaning you give it.
It's time for a change.
You are not enough… Because you need God.
Why do you keep trying? … Your insistence on leaning upon your brokenness is killing you.
Give up…. And let God take control.
Let it fall where it may. When you are looking at God, the world around you stops mattering.
You can’t hold it up. It’s not your place.
So.
Stop.
~Silver
