More rules :P (V-day 2)

More rules for life. And. Dating. And stuff like that.

1. DO NOT date someone because you're lonely. This will not end well. You'll live by who they are. And if they leave, you'll crash into a sudden desire for non existence, until you find another person to "fill" that emptiness in your heart.
2. DO NOT date someone just cuz they're cute. This is self explanatory.
3. DO NOT date someone because they think you are amazing. If this is why you like them.. Then you're just using them. And you suck.
4. Similarly, don't date someone who likes you because you like them.
5. DO date someone because you think they are amazing, And they think you are amazing, AND (This one is important) you want to spend the rest of your life with them.
6. Treat any relationship as though it is the most serious one you've ever been in.
7. Keep your relationships sacred.
8. Keep God sacred.
9. Don't try to fix the person you're with. If they require you to fix them, then you shouldn't be dating them.
10. Let God take care of things.
11. Look to God to fix your life.
12. Getting mad solves nothing. NOTHING.
13. Getting even doesn't solve anything either.
14. If you take a second to figure out what hurt you and made you mad, you can fix it.
15. If you take a second to figure out what hurt your person and made them mad (Friend or significant other), you can fix it.
16. Stay calm.
17. Kissing doesn't actually make everything better. That's like putting frosting over a moldy cake. You can't eat it, it's still bad and getting worse, but it looks pretty so you'll keep it for longer while it gets destroyed from the inside out.
19. Needing someone is not loving them.
20. God coming first doesn't mean you ask Him to fix your relationship. God coming first means stopping what you're doing, letting go, and saying "Your kingdom come, your will be done." even if it means losing everything. (Especially if it means losing everything)
21. God is not a fixit man, he is a builder. And He built you. And He calls you sacred and beautiful. Don't defile that.


So, there's another 21 rules/guidelines. Thank you if you commented on the last post, I really appreciate people's input. It helps me to fix anything that needs fixing and it also gives me an idea of what to write later on. (That and it's nice to see that someone actually reads and thinks about the stuff here.)

Here's another post from.. Forever ago about relationships, in case you're interested.

I may or may not have another post before V-day hits.... If I don't.. Remember to buy discount candy the day after!!!

(The plus of being single...)

 ~Silver